Let's Flip The Rules
of Dating


Living outside the UK?

Girls make the first move


Are you a girl who’s tired of getting a barrage of messages from guys who aren’t exactly up your street? On Antidate, you get to see the guys on a map - your own location is never revealed. Your profile will only become visible to a guy if you ‘approach’ him via Chat or Tap. It’s all up to you.

Guys sit back and relax


Are you a guy who’s tired of making the first move all the time? On Antidate, girls make the first move. When a girl makes the first approach it’s five times more likely that a conversation
will follow.

Tell me more


  • The main profile picture is a here and now, time-stamped selfie so you will know it’s not out-of-date.
  • We like Instagram so Antidate links up with your Instagram account for additional pictures.
  • Messages are only stored for 24 hours to reduce long-winded chat and get people meeting up more quickly.
  • Eyeball ID - a positive rating if another Antidater confirms that you look like your picture.
  • Erm it looks real pretty.
  • Are you LGBTQ? This version of Antidate is for heteros over 21 years old. We’re working on something special for the LGBTQ community. Watch this space…

Living outside the UK?


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